Friend dating a loser
When he calls, he asks her about her entire day - what she did at each point in the day and who she was with at the time and he basically asks for the exact times. Cain also is so jealous that he gets angry with Ashley if she even hangs out with any of her guy friends, including the ones she's known for years and would never have romantic relationships with.
Ashley has missed a lot of opportunities such as school socials and dances because she's afraid that Cain would not like it if she brought another guy.
This automatically makes it very hard for me to trust him because, even though he says he has quit, I personally know other guys who have said that they quit doing drugs only to get right back into doing them and sometimes even dragging others down in the process. I'm afraid that he might drag her down with him if he does drugs again.
I was originally hoping that Ashley would start to see this controlling side of Cain and end things, but a month into knowing him and a few weeks into dating him, they did the HND.
He is the worst thing that has happened to our family.
Looking back, we wish we had shipped her off somewhere when she was 17. We didn’t know what a serious problem this was back then.
Now, he has made her choose between her loving, close family and him.
They are engaged, and because we asked him to get a job (he hasn’t worked or gone to school for months and months), he refuses to come to our home or speak to us.