Dating rules calling after date
I don’t see society as a whole changing anytime soon, so my opinion is that it’s best to keep this sort of arrangement to yourself and not talk to your peer group about it (unless you feel you have someone you feel you can really trust, who won’t judge you, shame you, moralize you or gossip about you after you share the details… This relates back to rule #1 – when it ends, you want things to be clean…
you don’t want to have to explain to other people that it ended or your reasons why.
I want you to get what you want for the greatest good of everyone involved. It’s an arrangement that you define from the get-go as a purely sexual arrangement…
and when it ends, it needs to be clean without loose ends (for you or for him).
Now, I understand that some of you might be reading this article specifically because you are sleeping with a friend and you want it to become something more.
FWB arrangements are super clean and simple: a relationship purely for sexual enjoyment and exploration. FWB arrangements are best thought of as a bonus to be enjoyed in your life, but not something you need to hold on to or possess… but you practice safe sex and educate yourself on what it means to have safe sex.
It is essential that you understand the risks involved with sex and protect yourself accordingly.