Dating inner game
You know what you SHOULD be doing, but when you try to do it, there's this invisible force that stops you. I had a bad temper, and I could barely control myself when I was around an attractive girl.
I would start acting up - just like a little bratty kid.
FROM: Carlos Xuma Thursday - PM Dear Friend, Confidence is the number one concern for every guy I've ever met.
Women want it from us, and guys spend most of their lives working on feeling it and showing it.
Feeling Out of Control is Probably the Most Frustrating Experience for Men...
..your emotions and your feelings make you do crazy things - stuff you can't seem to control? And the worst part of this feeling is that NO ONE in your life ever sat you down and explained just how confidence really works, did they? Well, stick with me, because there's something else you need to know about how confidence REALLY works.
Ultimately, it really boils down to a feeling of control over your own life.
You don't want to feel like other people control your success with women. I know a lot of guys that would tell you that you don't need techniques - that if you have the inner game confidence, then your outer game is automatic. I'm sure you've felt confidence walking up to a woman and found that your tongue was tied and your head got all foggy the second you tried to say something.
And thanks to television shows and "pickup artist" stuff, women know all about the routines and openers you use.
That gray outer game bubble is weak and tiny because you're forced to "fake" a lot more than you should have to. Now, just imagine what would happen when your Inner Game and your Outer Game are complete and congruent.