Am i an intimidating person
A person who is content and has peace of mind is very unlikely to project anger and bitterness on a regular basis.We’ve all been in the company of someone who makes us feel on edge, uneasy or unsure of ourselves.There is a very clever way to deal with this situation.Every single one of us was a child once, fairly powerless and open to the rules, restrictions and attitudes of the ‘powerful’ adults around us.We can all be regressed to feeling like that little kid again depending on how someone behaves with us. Intimidating people are often all bravado and have very little to back it up with.
We automatically put ourselves on the bottom end of the seesaw.
She went on to explain that these negative behaviours were projections of inner misery and chaos.
Ever since then, when I meet someone who spews out anger and negativity, it offers me a glimpse of how awful their internal experience of the world is.
Be careful with this though – I don’t mean you should put on a condescending voice and offer them a sweet!
What this technique does, is allow you to ‘frame’ the other person in a different light.